Resolving Conflicts Peacefully: A Guide for Reception Students

Question 1

When you feel cross, what is a calm way to relax?

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Take a deep breath and count slowly

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Have a go at something

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Shout at the person who made you cross

Question 2

What do we call it when you tell people how you feel?

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Expressing yourself

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Chatting

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Arguing

Question 3

What is a kind way to ask someone to stop doing something?

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I would like you to stop please. It's not nice.

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Stop it!

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I don't like that

Question 4

What should you do if you can't solve a problem with your friend?

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Tell a grown-up for help

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Give up

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Keep trying until you find a solution

Question 5

What feeling might you have when someone is unkind to you?

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Sad

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Happy

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Excited

Question 6

What should you do if you see someone being mean to another child?

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Tell a teacher or another grown-up

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Join in

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Ignore it

Question 7

What does it mean to be fair?

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Being kind to everyone

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Getting what you want

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Being the best

Question 8

What is a peaceful way to sort out a problem?

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Talking it out

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Fighting

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Giving up

Question 9

You want to play with a toy, but your friend is already playing with it. What's a good way to solve this problem?

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Share the toy with your friend.

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Take the toy away from your friend.

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Cry and tell the teacher.

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Give the toy to your friend.

Question 10

When we have a problem with a friend, what's the best thing to do first?

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Talk to them calmly

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Punch them

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Ignore them

Question 11

When we want to tell someone what we need, what should we do?

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Use 'I' statements

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Shout and scream

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Hit them

Question 12

If we can't agree on a solution, what can we do?

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Ask a grown-up for help

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Give up

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Start fighting

Question 13

Which of these is NOT a good way to solve a problem?

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Hit the other person

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Talk it out

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Find a way that works for everyone

Question 14

What does it mean to 'compromise'?

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Find a solution that works for everyone

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Give up everything you want

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Agree with everything the other person says

Question 15

How can we show we care about someone's feelings, even if we don't agree with them?

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Listen to what they have to say

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Ignore them

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Make fun of them

Question 16

If we've said something that hurt someone, what's the best way to make things better?

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Take responsibility for our actions and say we're sorry

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Say 'sorry' and don't mean it

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Explain ourselves without taking responsibility

Question 17

If we're feeling angry or upset during a disagreement, what should we do?

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Walk away and take a break

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Never stop talking

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Keep arguing until we get our way

Question 18

What's the most important thing to remember when solving problems with others?

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Treating others with respect

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Being right

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Getting our own way

Question 19

What can we do to help stop disagreements from happening in the first place?

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Talk to each other openly and honestly

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Keep our thoughts and feelings to ourselves

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Avoid spending time with others

Question 20

When you feel angry, it's important to:

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Talk calmly to someone you trust

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Shout and scream

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Hit someone

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Run away and hide

Question 21

What does 'taking turns' mean?

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Talking and listening one person at a time

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Talking and listening at the same time

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Sharing toys without taking them back

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Saying sorry when you do something wrong

Question 22

Which of these is a good way to find a solution to a problem?

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Ask both people what they want and try to find something that works for everyone

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Tell the teacher to tell the other person what to do

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Give the other person what they want, even if you don't like it

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Ignore the problem and hope it goes away

Question 23

What is a feeling?

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Something you can think and feel inside

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Something you can touch

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Something you can smell

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Something you can see

Question 24

What is a good way to resolve a conflict with a friend?

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Share a toy or take turns

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Punch them

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Shout at them

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Tell the teacher

Question 25

If you don't understand something someone is saying, what should you do?

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Ask them to say it again

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Ignore them

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Shout at them

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Walk away

Question 26

When you have a disagreement with a friend, what's the best way to solve it?

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Talk to your friend and find a solution you both like.

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Shout and tell them they're wrong.

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Ignore them and pretend nothing happened.

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Tell the teacher and let them decide.

Question 27

When you feel angry, it's best to:

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Talk to a grown-up or a friend.

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Scream and shout.

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Hit the person who made you angry.

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Keep your feelings inside.

Question 28

How can you solve a problem with a friend?

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Talk to them about it.

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Ignore them.

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Fight with them.

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Tell the teacher.

Question 29

Which of these is a feeling word?

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Happy.

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Dog.

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Red.

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Jump.

Question 30

When you have a problem with a friend, what's the first thing you should do?

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Try to talk to your friend about it.

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Tell the teacher.

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Ignore the problem.

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Hit your friend.

Question 31

When you have a problem with a friend, what's the best thing to do?

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Talk to your friend and try to find a solution that works for both of you

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Tell the teacher

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Shout at them

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Ignore your friend

Question 32

When you have a disagreement with a friend, what is the kindest way to solve it?

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Talk to your friend calmly and listen to their ideas.

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Shout at your friend and tell them they are wrong.

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Walk away from your friend and pretend that the disagreement didn't happen.

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Hit your friend.

Question 33

When you have a problem with a friend, what's the first thing you should do?

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Tell an adult

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Yell and shout

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Hit your friend

Question 34

What does it mean to 'share'?

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To give something to someone else

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To take something from someone else

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To keep something all for yourself

Question 35

What should you do if you're feeling angry?

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Tell someone how you feel

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Kick a ball

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Punch a wall

Question 36

What's a 'quiet corner'?

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A place where you go to calm down

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A place where you go to get in trouble

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A place where you go to play

Question 37

What does 'fair' mean?

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Treating everyone the same

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Giving everyone what they want

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Only being kind to your friends

Question 38

What should you do if someone isn't being kind to you?

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Tell an adult

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Hit them back

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Ignore them

Question 39

What's a 'feeling'?

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Something you can feel inside

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Something you can taste

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Something you can see

Question 40

When someone is talking to you, what's the best thing to do?

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Listen carefully

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Look away

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Interrupt them

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Talk over them

Question 41

How can you best let someone know what you need?

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Use kind words and ask nicely

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Tell them you want it right now

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Ignore them until they give it to you

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Threaten them if they don't give it to you

Question 42

What does it mean to 'take turns'?

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Only speak when it's your turn

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Everyone can talk at the same time

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The loudest person gets to talk the most

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Only the teacher can speak

Question 43

What should you do if you can't solve a problem on your own?

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Ask a grown-up or friend for help

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Give up and do nothing

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Start crying

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Pretend the problem doesn't exist

Question 44

What is the opposite of being mean or aggressive?

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Calm and kind

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Angry and upset

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Scared and worried

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Happy and excited

Question 45

After a disagreement or fight, what is the best thing to do?

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Make up and be friends again

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Stay angry and don't talk

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Tell everyone what happened

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Ignore the other person

Question 46

What might happen if you hit someone?

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You might get a timeout or a consequence

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Nothing will happen

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You will get a reward

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You will get a hug

Question 47

What does it mean to be 'fair'?

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Everyone has the same things and chances

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The strongest person gets more

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The loudest person gets their way

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Only the teacher can decide what is fair

Question 48

If someone is bullying you, what should you do?

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Tell a grown-up for help

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Fight back against the bully

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Ignore the bully and hope they go away

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Try to become friends with the bully

Question 49

How can you resolve a disagreement peacefully?

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Take turns talking and listening to each other

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Hit or hurt the other person

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Scream and shout

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Ignore the problem and hope it goes away

Question 50

What's the first thing to do when you have a problem with someone?

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Tell how you feel

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Hit the other person

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Find a solution

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Ignore the other person

Question 51

How can you tell your friend what you need?

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Use 'I' words

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Ignore how the other person feels

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Hit the other person

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Shout at the other person

Question 52

What do you do if you can't fix a problem with a friend?

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Ask a grown-up for help

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Give up

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Hit the other person

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Ignore the other person

Question 53

What's the best way to fix a problem with someone?

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Treat them how you want to be treated

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Always be right

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Never give up

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Always hit first

Question 54

How can you show you care about your friend's feelings?

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Listen to how they feel

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Hit the other person

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Talk over your friend

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Ignore how your friend feels

Question 55

What's the difference between making a deal and fixing a problem?

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A deal is when both people give up something, fixing a problem is when everyone is happy

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Fixing a problem is when one person wins

Question 56

What's NOT a good way to calm down when you're angry?

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Hit something

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Count to ten

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Take a deep breath

Question 57

What's the most important thing to remember when fixing a problem with someone?

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Everyone has feelings

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It's okay to hit sometimes

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I'm always right

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Winning is the most important thing